: It's A Razor Thin Line - Finding Your Holiday Balance In The Rain

It's A Razor Thin Line - Finding Your Holiday Balance In The Rain

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We struggle for balance year 'round, but as the holidays arrive, the balancing act becomes just a bit trickier. I look at it as a fabulous opportunity.

It's an opportunity to re-evaluate our priorities. Have we gotten off track? Are we spending too much time at the office, at the keyboard, chasing our tails at the sake of family and friends?

Let this be a time to pick up the phone and let the people that matter to you know how much you love them and what they mean to you. Hug your husband, your wife, your children, your friends. Practice random acts of kiindness. Help those less fortunate. Do the human race proud.

24 commentsTom Plant • November 13 2007 09:19AM

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Lovely Tom! I am re-evaluating my priorities right this minute! What to do, what to do......
Posted by Allentown PA Real Estate Broker * Jennifer Monroe * over 2 years ago

Tom,  A good reminder for me to call all of those people who live far away and who I share a special bond of love and care with......thank you!

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Jo 

Posted by Jo-Anne Smith- Oakville, Burlington and Mississauga Region Real Estate, Ont (Brekland Realty Group) over 2 years ago
Tom - Excellent entry for contest! I'm really intimidated now because I'm in the process of writing mine and the entries I've seen so far are excellent! Great job! I loved the Random Acts of Kindness video...hilarious!
Posted by Linda Scanlan (A Fan of AR) over 2 years ago
TOM:  Thanks for stepping up and entering the Holiday Balance contest.  The 2nd video is quite funny.  As a judge in the contest, I'll reserve my detailed comments until after the voting is completed.
Posted by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance) over 2 years ago

Jennifer - Thanks. Sorry I couldn't make it to the cafe last night.

Jo - I have a hunch you're pretty good at doing that without being reminded ;-)

Posted by Tom Plant (WINEormous.com) over 2 years ago

Linda - I have no doubt yours will be wonderful. Thanks for the compliment.

Brian - It made me chuckle I wanted to end on a light note.

Posted by Tom Plant (WINEormous.com) over 2 years ago
Thanks for the reminder...I got a "slap in the face" of sorts when my aunt (dad's sister) emailed and didn't say one word about how I neglected writing...but on and on about she had surgery and stuff. Guilt. I am working on holiday postcards today! Thanks for your support for the contest and beautiful message!
Posted by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman HAWAII Relocations & Real Estate (Century 21 Liberty Homes) over 2 years ago
Tom- So simple.....but so true....showing we care really is what it is all about....thanks :)
Posted by Kathy McGraw, Riverside County CA Real Estate (CELLing Realty) over 2 years ago
Tom - what a wonderful reminder for all of us!
Posted by Bill's Blog - Florida Realty Professional - AHWD (Charles Rutenberg Realty) over 2 years ago

Sally - Thanks for inspiring me to write it. Now I need to practice what I preach.

Kathy - You're welcome. It's so important.

Bill & Babara-Jo -Thanks :-)

Posted by Tom Plant (WINEormous.com) over 2 years ago

Tom,

Love the post. I used to work in Manhattan years ago and the best time to be in the City was Christmas. It was like a different place. People smiled and said hello and it's not that New Yorkers are rude many of them just keep to themselves to avoid the weirdos and cons on the street. Christmas does bring out the best in all of us - I need to call my Mom and tell her I love her! Thanks Tom!

Mike Lewis

Posted by Dawn Lewis San Diego Realtor (New Dawn Realty) over 2 years ago
Tom ~  The holidays are my bestest time of the year.  Between Disneyland, my birthday, and Christmas, I never get a chance to grow up.  Thank you for reminding people of the truest priorities.  In fact, I even make certain that my shopping and wrapping are done by December 1st each year.  That way, I can celebrate with fun traditions for my children and husband.  It sure makes it more enjoyable and the memories sweeter!
Posted by Sarah Eubanks ~ Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public (Hill Valley Financial Services) over 2 years ago
Tom, You rock!  I saw Brian Block's post briefly not too long ago and here you are stepping up to the plate!  Nice post too! :)
Posted by Shannon Lefevre, PA (John R. Wood REALTORS Inc.) over 2 years ago
Tom:  Thanks for reminding me.  Gosh, I hope I am not the only one that sometimes gets her prioties mixed up.  How odd that the graphic is lovi-lovi for me to submit my comment.  Must be telling me something. 
Posted by Dianne Barody - Pensacola Florida Real Estate (Century 21 AmeriSouth Realty) over 2 years ago
Tom - managed to find a computer in Florida. The holidays are great because you do feel more of a bond with family. Thats why I love this time of year!
Posted by Bill Gassett Metrowest Massachusetts Real Estate (RE/MAX Executive Realty) over 2 years ago

Hi Tom,
Now you are stepping on my toes! LOL.   Keeping in touch with old friends and far away family members is a weak point for me.  You have inspired me to improve and there is no time like the present.  Thank you.

A great entry for the contest. 

Posted by Cynthia Tilghman, RealtorĀ® Onslow County NC Home Specialist (Kingsbridge Realty, Inc) over 2 years ago

Mike - New York is different. Oce you get used to the energy it's great. Thanks.

Sarah - Thanks for the nice comment. Enjoy your holidays.

Shannon - Thanks so much.

Dianne - Believe me, you're not the only one. Thank you.

Bill - Hope you'e enjoying time in Florida. Thanks for taking the time to comment.

Cynthia - Oops, clumsy me. I appreciate youir kind words.

Posted by Tom Plant (WINEormous.com) over 2 years ago

Thought provoking post!  I love the Random Acts of Kindness!

 

Posted by Kansas City North Real Estate :: Fran White 816-682-3897 (North Kansas City Real Estate, Reece and Nichols Residential) over 2 years ago
Tom:  So true and so easy to get caught up in day to day things and forget the very ones we need to remember.  This is a hectic time and your reminder is always a good nudge to take a minute and just breathe!  Then call those very important people in our lives.
Posted by Donna Yates, Georgia Realtor Georgia Real Estate,Blue Ridge Mountains (Coldwell Banker High Country Realty) over 2 years ago

Fran - Wasn't that cute? Thanks.

Donna - I just had a nice visit with my sister yesterday. I needed the nudge mysef.

Posted by Tom Plant (WINEormous.com) over 2 years ago
AMEN...preach on, preacha!!! I'm continually seeking balance...but it always seems that I'm too busy to find it. I won't stop looking, though. ;-) GBY!!!
Posted by Elizabeth Nieves - Bilingual Raleigh - Durham North Carolina Real Estate Team (The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group) over 2 years ago
Elizabeth - Thank you. Congratlations on your winning entry! You earned it.
Posted by Tom Plant (WINEormous.com) over 2 years ago
Tom, thanks again for your support of the Holiday Balance contest.  Your funny video has inspired me to think of some random acts of kindness that I can perform.  Though I doubt I'll be hugging any soda machines in the near future or sharing my lettuce.  Too funny!  Have a great Thanksgiving!
Posted by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance) over 2 years ago
Brian - Come on, try it just once! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving yourself.
Posted by Tom Plant (WINEormous.com) over 2 years ago

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